Stop Complaining!

If you can’t determine if you are this stupid after reading this, you likely are the problem with today’s society. Let’s just put that out there before you even bother to continue reading this.

While talking to some people today i hear varying opinions on all kinds of topics such as religion, politics, social status, and much more. Typically, I remain opinionated because of the fact that I really do not care what people think, so why the hell does it matter?

Anyways, over the past few years we have been friends with this couple who are a complete train wreck and their relationship is solely based upon desperation due to them having a mid-thirties mid-life crisis. The husband was a Marine and served on three tours in Iraq and overall is a great guy. He is a God loving, gun toting, tattooed bad-ass from the United States Military that serves our country for over a decade. On the other hand is his wife, the bitchy divorced mid-thirties girl who has done a diligent effort in letting her political views cloud her success in life and devour her every ounce of logic. Literally, the kind of girl that can’t keep herself out of drama, because she finds it necessary to inject her liberal ass opinion on every situation possible.

Stop! Before you get ass hurt and get on the political views bitch here listen up… I have friends that are gay, black, straight, liberal, conservative, democratic, republican, libertarian, etc. The problem is not the political view associated with the individual, it is how that individual respects OTHER’s personal and political views. If you have no respect for others to keep your whiny ass shut because of the conflict it will cause, then go fuck yourself sideways. You’re the problem with the world.

Now, back on topic! They have been married for 2 years and have been together for 3 in total. One of them in very self-motivated and determined to be successful in everything they do. The other one has this entitled view of society and views everyone like they can learn something from them. (Guess who is who!?)

Now, they are married and all of these personality characteristics are coming out of the woodwork and they keep complaining about each other. On a weekly basis we hear shit about how the wife is so down in the dumps and has some new issue, and some new drama, and some new problem to deal with. At the same time we hear about how the husband is successful, motivated, and is busting his ass working 12-14 hours a day to help support his family… All while it’s a chore for his wife to sit at her desk for a bitchy 5 hours per day reading emails and answering telephones.

At what point did these two think that their personal characteristics were compatible? You have one person who is very respectful of others political views, beliefs, and all around is a good person which does not stem from religion or political association. Then you have the other part of this relationship that is an opinionated bitch that feels the need to insert her opinion into every damn situation every because it’s her “right”… Everyone has rights, not everyone has respect.

If you are one of these people who is a newly-wed looking at your relationship going “What the fuck happened!?”… Maybe you should have taken a step back and taken the relationship for face value and not dug in any deeper. Maybe dig in a few times, but then don’t call her for two weeks. Whatev.

 

Don’t be a megaphone!

This applies to most people unfortunately. If this doesn’t apply to you, I personally applaud you and thank you for your logical service to society.

In a whirlwind of bullshit at one of our offices today I have an employee run up to me and say “Hey, we have a problem”… He states the problem which obviously cannot be shared with all of you, but the problem is small in the big scheme of things. Literally, the problem equates to somewhere in the neighborhood of a fraction of a percent.

So, I of course ask the logical questions of… 1. are we required to take part in this? 2. what is this needed for? 3. have you asked anyone else about this to see if it is actually needed?

As I ask these questions, I get blank stare in return. To all of them.

I say this as a business owner, problem solver, and more so than that, a logical person who doesn’t like bullshit.

Please make it a point when seeing a problem and complaining about it, to actually have a solution to the problem when you are bringing it up to someone. Think of how the person must feel when you’re bring a shit little problem to the table, but no solution.

Don’t me a megaphone and state the problems louder than necessary. What are you doing? What are you solving?

Be logical. Be thoughtful. Be proactive.

Not an OUNCE of compassion!

Living in a suburban time warp you meet a lot of people from all different strides of like, which honestly many of which have not come from great up-bringings. Not like they were homeless drug addicts, but most all of our neighbors “made it”. This is pretty common in our neighborhood, as we are all in our mid thirties / early forties and we really didn’t come from anything close to what we have now.

With that being said it is however quite interesting to see how these people raise their children with a complete lack of common sense and respect for people around them. It’s almost like children today are so fucking self-involved they cant dislodge their heads out of their asses (cell phones), to take a second and actually communicate and be a respectful member of society.

Given the nature of where we live, this is a very common these not just with our family, but other contributing members to this blog as well. We all kind of live in suburban areas of Greater Atlanta, and it’s actually pretty funny that no matter where you go… Kids will all be the same based upon how society is bringing up our children.

The unfortunate thing though is kids now are growing up to be worthless members of society that literally lack every ounce of self-worth and motivation that we all had growing up. Kids today are coming back home, living with mommy and daddy after college, getting kicked out of school, being disrespectful. This shit NEVER happened in the 80’s and 90’s!

These kids in today’s world are lacking an ass whooping and a lot of self worth.